QotD: Grudge Match

Do you hold grudges against people? Tell us about an incident if you do, and if you don't, tell us how you rise above it.
Submitted by Sophie.

I sometimes find it hard to forget and although I can forgive, in certain circumstances it is still there, deep down.
Equally I fell out with my brother and we didn't speak for about three years, it may have been longer, then one day it just felt right to get back in touch. We met up and I realised how much I'd missed him. Nothing was said about the circumstance around which we fell out and it doesn't matter in the least now, I love him to bits and never want to have that happen again.